What You Can Learn On The Toilet

As I sat on the toilet I heard some women come in the restroom where we were playing and start talking about me.

I can't tell you how many times over the last my God you wouldn't even believe me, years of touring and playing shows I've retired to The venue restaurant only to hear people coming in drunk letting me know indirectly every criticism in detail of our show.

This time as I listened I commented, "be careful, this lead singer is sitting on the toilet listening!" The beautiful thing is that the women had kind things to say. They had no idea I was indeed listening but they had wonderful things to say.

How easy it is sometimes to talk smack criticize or say something negative. But by the wonderful things these ladies said they made me feel really good. Thus leading to you name it, another impromptu restroom photoshoot!

To those out there who find the time and the energy to speak positive words over another human being, God bless you.

I found out later that this particular party was dealing with some personal things that were challenging to the heart. What they didn't know is that particular night I was also. How kindness can bridge such a gap an aid in healing.

God bless you, precious souls. We were also honored to meet you. Thanks for letting me sit in your lap and embarrass you on your birthday! You looked mortified and embarrassed completely sorry I know my job there was done! ❤️

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Do you love who you work with?

I do!!! I do!!

All across "Merica people are locking arms together who share a love for looking and feeling great! Whether it's having more energy, boosting their metabolism, gaining muscle in the gym or just casually taking some products for over all heath... we seem to find each other!

The beauty is, there is also an income opportunity & some of us really have a great time helping other people as well as ourselves make something extra. There's nothing like getting a check in the mail!

So get with any of these HOTTIES! Because we LOVE taking photos and spreading the word on what we are up to!!!

Missy List Wescoat of Missy's Arcade Restaurant & Jen Pilewski I KNOW have some products on hand! Message them! We can even get you a DISCOUNT for the whole year!

Peace to ALL in the new year!!!

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Making money getting healthy in 2017 with your friends!

*** PSA ***

Hey! This is my favorite #Father & #ProWrestler Chris Michaels! We do business together just helping people with their fitness goals! What does that mean?

It means we have VAST knowledge of what it takes to get you looking and feeling your best!

So if you go online or to your local 3 letter word supplement store, please support Chris Michaels instead! Keep it in the family! Cause that brother has one! A hot little lady and some pretty damn cute kids. ;-)

Instead of getting your RedBull, Monster, 5 Hour Energy, Gatorade, protein, protein shakes, meal replacement shakes, aminos, pre workout, post workout, creatine, vitamins, appetite suppressants and MORE from the old fashioned store... hit up Chris and get it sent to your door! He makes extra income doing that! And YOU can too!

So do you buy any of those things above? Do you get paid for it? Talk to us. it's 2017 in a beat. Make this year your healthiest and make some extra bucks doing it.

PS, if you're a worker and reading this... let's go. I've got OTHER things that go hand in hand with this to really boost your career. Holla.

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What's the definition of insanity? it's doing the SAME thing OVER & OVER and expecting change. This one is easy. Email us. XOXOX Goldy Locks

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Let's Take Cute Dogs For A Ride with The Humane Society and The Goldy lockS Band!

Thanks to the Humane Society of Dickson County for letting us come hang out with all their little guys. This was the FIRST video we did for #LetsTakeARide.

In 2017 The Goldy lockS Band wants to do a whole heck of a lot MORE of these videos! So contact us if you know people at a shelter who'd love a day of fun, awareness and reminders to the community to #AdoptNotShop!

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Thank you Vivienne Akhdary for having us all over!

Anyone watching this PLEASE leave a comment on the ACTUAL YouTube video. It helps us all get the word out!

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Rock'N Roll Mary Poppins comes to Titusville PA with the help from One Hot Teacher & The Modern Day Betty Boop Missy Wescoat

I have been talking to students in the Titusville area for a few months now. I went to the high school, just doing a very stripped down talk for smaller groups of kids. They were incredible.

This student opportunity was given by #Titusville Highschool teacher #JeniferPilewski, a graduate herself of the high school. She saw this post on my wall and contacted me asking if I still spoke to kids. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DaWe2vTjFWE

She saw a need to try a different approach to speaking to the kids. Jennifer is the kindest woman I've ever met. She is beyond perfect for teaching, mentoring and empowering students. I'm the more Rock'N Roll #MaryPoppins of the group, but my message is usually heard by the kids who truly need it.

I also got a chance to go to one of the colleges and talk to the young adults about the money they can earn helping OTHERS they know with #Fitness & #Finance. There is such a need in some of these smaller towns. There ARE positive ways of earning large amounts of income, one just needs to educate how.

So this has been a win win across the board. Many young adults came out to many impromptu events.

There isn't enough time to always get everything in at the schools, so Missy List Wescoat, let us come to Missy's Arcade Restaurant after hours and hang out and just talk. Do you know what an AMAZING woman this chick is? Have you been spreading the word about this #Diner? #50sGrill? #Tourist hotspot?

Well do it! And consider #Catering, #PrivateParties and everything FUN & FOOD at Missy's. She's one in a million and her team is sick hot! Just the BEST!!

Kelly McDonald Kelli Grove YOU two are SO WONDERFUL!!!

SOOOO much goodness in ONE town!

#TitusvillePA has it going on! I'm so happy to be involved in this community each month that's hundreds of miles away! When you have the quest for making lives better then the right people just seem to find you and events fall into place.

Thanks to Missy's Arcade for having us all hang out!!! XOXOXO Goldy Locks

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The Power Of The Green Dress

I remember being so jealous of my mother on St. Patrick's day. She had a closet of clothes she had collected for years in the color of green. I had some old crappy neon green ripped sweat shirt. That was the extent of my collection...

I got angry and pouted to the other room. "Someday you'll be old like me and have PLENTY of green to wear on St. Patrick's day" she said.

Over the years, I did collect many different items in green. I remember seeing this photo of my mother. She was big in the theater in her younger days before becoming so sick with Chron's Disease. She always had some crazy or over the top outfit on...

She loved to be SPECTACULAR. She was BIGGER than life. She spoke to EVERYONE and ONLY had the most POSITIVE things to say.

Often I was embarrassed at her speaking to EVERYONE at dinner, church, the store... God, you name it. My mom is Irish, but she thought she was FROM Ireland and many times would just don an Irish accent and I was mortified... Lol.

Years later she wore the dress in the freezing cold MN weather to a party. She donned... you guessed it, green heels but fell on the ice and broke her hip. All in the damn name of glamor.

I remember ironing the dress at my best friend's house. Mending it on her sewing machine and getting it ready for one last performance. It would be her last time wearing it. Or? Maybe her "forever" time wearing it. I guess it's how you look at it, I choose the later.

The letters in her casket are from many of you. People all over the world wrote beautiful letters to my mom. She said one night visiting she felt worthless because she was so sick. And you all rose to the occasion. I printed them out and thousands of letters were packed into her coffin. I'll remember that. Thank you.

Know when many of you also, complimented me on the dress I wore for the National Anthem last month, that they were more meaningful than many of you realized. I wanted to share the story of why I cried before I sang. I was because when I was getting ready backstage I realized what I was wearing; behold the power of the Green Dress.

You were a class act mother. You always will be. May I hold the slightest candle to you, your inner beauty and kindness to all people. How lucky I am to be able to say, you were my mom. XOXO

Ps, for you mom...

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I met some really amazing people at #ReelScreen TV conference. A few in particular we powerful positive people. We all have dreams. We all have things we want.

I was down the other day for whatever reason. I decided to clean and say the rosary. I said it slowly, intentionally and very specifically for one woman I met, wanting to find the right agency or company to help produce her show.

She doesn't even know me that well, but I poured concentrated passion and joy into a solid prayer with beautiful words just for her. And you know what? I felt better myself when I was finished.

When you just can't think any more 

about your own problems...

Try thinking of someone else's. XOXO

There is power in prayer. Use it.

Love Goldy

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Haters I love you!

This meme someone sent me today inspired this post.

In every work place there will be jealousy. People will hate you if you are doing well and achieving. Sadly sometimes the people we call friends turn on us. The people we thought would be excited about our promotion are not. They were secretly trying for the same one.

Replace that feeling of disappointment with joy. And when you feel hated on, just tell yourself inside “they love me.”

It sounds like a sick joke or a lie, but if you train yourself to do this, even verbally saying out loud that people like you… you end up attracting the ones that do. You can deflect negative energy by creating your own force field of joy. How do I know? Let me take you back…

I started modeling and doing commercials when I was 3 years old. I wouldn’t trade that brutality for anything. Being rejected that early in life sharpens you into a bulletproof shield if you allow it. Say what you want to about me, I’m rarely rattled.

In a world of entitled and spoiled children where I’m sure soon there will be an automatic butt wiper and “kisser”, just to make EVERYTHING in life better, the children of the 80’s didn’t have such luxuries. We were spanked, yelled at, told to pull a switch from the tree and come get our punishment! Belts and pots and pans had different meanings back then! So did criticism. You got a look from your parent and knew that was it.

I remember when I was 8 years old, auditioning for a national friend chicken chain. I got the part, was all excited and went to the production studio to shoot. A group of adults frowned at me sitting behind the camera. They all whispered and pointed at me. Finally a director in frustrations said, “her eyes are different sizes! This could never work!”

So it looked as though Goldy was going home. After my disabled and very sick mother had driven me to this job. I didn’t like that. And that was the first time I used the “F” word. I remember it coming out of my mouth and feeling paralyzed when I said it. But I looked that director in the face and said, “My eyes ARE 2 different sizes sir. Most people’s are. Maybe being normal will sell more chicken! And oh, F you!”

I got up and left. I grabbed my stuff in the dressing room and went to find my mom. I told her they didn’t want to use me and that I’d like an ice cream cone.

Someone chased me down. Apparently like LIKED spit fire children with passion. Lol. I stood my ground, was professional and made several hundred thousand dollars off that whole package and kept my terminal mother alive longer.

It’s how you handle people that hate you. I did spout off, but I returned with a smile. I turned their hate into joy and THAT turned into a child with a really big smile gracing the box of ANOTHER national tooth paste company grossing quite a bit for my family. J

Goldy Knows. It’s my little internet show. If you ever fantasized about meeting your childhood crush somewhere random… then watch! Because it’s funny and people are just now discovering it!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xK-iAFulEiY

So make as many HATE memes as you can! THANK YOU for your time, attention and disgust in my show! Lol. If you watch it long enough, maybe you will learn something about a disease called Lupus. Maybe you can help diagnose someone. All from a silly stupid show called #GoldyKnows.

One of these days, the world will learn that I really do! XOXO

 Goldy

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A Golden Post

Every once and a while I need to get a little more raw and real. Much of this content is going into three different books I'm writing. All different, but it deals with things that have happened to me and what I've done to come out shining.

I waited a while to post this photo. Because it brought tears to my eyes. It represents so much more thank anyone could ever know.

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I've always been very different that the other people around me. I've been very strong but I would be lying to say even now people say and do so many things to hurt me. When you're different or in entertainment people think they have a licence. A licence to ask personal questions, badger you, pry, say cruel things and just be inappropriate.

What people don't always see is what happens behind the scenes. And I always choose to speak positive words over people. But not right now.

There have been some pretty incredible people I"ve shared the stage with, but there have also been very cruel, volatile, negative and abusive people as well. I "took it" to keep it all going.

I watched The Secret in 2006. During a very dark time when I had to wait to declare bankruptcy. I lent some people some money and the interest went into the 100's of thousands. The IRS eventually came for me as well...

I watched this movie and then read the book The Secret, and it changed my life. Because I started to ASK God and the Universe for what I wanted.

And part of what I wanted, more importantly than money or food... was friends. True friends. Maybe even people in our band who I liked? Or even better??? Liked ME!

I was mocked and picked on as a child, my teens, high school, bla bla bla. I was decent looking, made a lot of money in movies, commercials and films and helped pay my own way. So it was tolerable that people were jerks. I had my own self-worth and self-esteem. ;-)

Fast forward to an adult and in a band with adults... not so much. I will go into more details as to just how BAD some people were to me, but only to prove a point.

What you THINK about, what you THANK about is what you BRING about. And I dreamed of great human beings to tour the world with me.

And that's what I got. :-)

Where band mates would mock me for working out, make fun of me for eating healthy and laugh at me when I prayed before shows and blessed my food doesn't happen anymore. Because I didn't dwell on it. I concentrated on what I DID want. And here is the photo to PROVE the #LawOfAttraction really DOES work.

Thank you to some of the best guys I've ever hung out with. They are beyond talented in their craft but even more so as human beings.

Special thanks to Dr. Joe Vitale for his contribution in my online magazine, Golden.

This article can be seen here on page 19. His presence in The Secret was a driving part of my life changing for the better and more positive. I owe him a lot. :-)

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